Valentines Day Gifts That Don’t Die
Valentine’s Day is a $24 Billion dollar holiday across the U.S. Yes, you read that right, Billion. Originally a pagan holiday celebrating fertility, Valentine’s Day has become a celebration of romantic love. The tradition of giving flowers for Valentine’s Day gifts dates back all the way to the 17th Century. In the United States, the holiday has evolved into both a cultural and commercial holiday, with greeting cards and cut flowers being the most commonly given gifts. The problem with cards and flowers as Valentines Day gifts is that cards become clutter, and flowers die. The sentiment is beautiful, but the reality is, you end up throwing them away in the end.
The truth is, you can be as extravagant as your budget will bear with jewelry or chocolates and flowers, perfume and the like. However, I’d rather see you give meaningful gifts to yourselves as a couple, to help you celebrate your love and make wonderful memories together. There are ways of investing in your relationship that do not simply feed the commercialism of Valentine’s day but remain truer, I think, to the spirit of the holiday.There are a lot of other gifts that you can give that allow you to be romantic, thoughtful and show your creative side.
Resist the temptation to give in to all the advertising and give yourselves meaningful Valentines Day gifts for Valentine’s day that come from the heart and will be uniquely yours alone. Here are some ideas. These aren’t gender specific, because there are all kinds of romantic couples. Take a look at some romantic and thoughtful Valentine’s Day gifts that don’t die. One idea is also to donate to a charity or cause that you know is important to your partner.
- Tickets to a show or concert
Do some investigating and plan ahead for a concert or play that you’ve both been wanting to see. This kind of Valentines Day Gifts are special. Make a night of it with dinner or cocktails. Dress to impress and hire a car or stay overnight in the city where the venue is. Take pictures and fully immerse yourselves in the experience.
- Reservations for a spa day or couples massage
This can be a wonderful romantic time of togetherness and a day to remember. Especially if one or both of you is in a high-stress profession and (more commonly), don’t take enough time for self-care. Pamper yourselves and each other with a day with no demands other than to feel relaxed and be attended to. Mani/Pedi, salt scrub, mud soak, whatever sounds the best. Treat yourselves to a light meal together afterwards and bask in the relaxation.
- Romantic weekend getaway
This is a fun way to celebrate Valentine’s Day. You can plan this getaway together, and coordinate time off, child care, etc. well in advance to avoid any last-minute problems. Choose a place that you’ve never been before but have always wanted to see. Select one activity per day, and leave the rest of your schedule open to do whatever you like. Don’t skimp on accommodations. Find a nice hotel or BnB to rent that will enhance your romantic Valentine’s Day experience. As a gift cut up 25 pieces of paper and in a jar hand these to your partner with the things about them that has you loving them every day of your life together.
- Wine or beer tasting
A day in wine country can be a romantic way to celebrate your love. You might want to do this with another couple, or on your own. Hire a car to be safe (no drinking and driving) and enjoy some time in the country while tasting and taking in the sights. Many wineries and breweries also offer meal options. Take your time and make a day of it. Later you can enjoy the products you brought home and relive the memories you made on this special Valentine’s Day.
- Night off from parenting
If you’ve got kids, your work is never done. It’s no wonder most parents fall into bed exhausted at the end of the day. This Valentine’s Day, make arrangements for your kids to be cared for by grandparents or friends, so that you and your partner can get a night off to be together. You can stay in, go out, do whatever you want. What a great Valentines Day gifts you can give your partner (and yourself)!
- Attend a Valentine’s Day themed event
Kick off a romantic Valentine’s Day by making reservations to attend a Valentine’s Day event. Whether it’s dinner, a dance, or a movie event, take your partner out and show them a good time. You’ll both have fun dressing up and kicking the romance up a notch. Sometimes, these events will offer rooms at a local hotel or at the venue. Take full advantage and get out and celebrate.
- Housekeeping service for a month or more
This is a great gift for the stay-at-home parent. Since the beginning of the pandemic, many people work from home, so there’s very little respite from housekeeping. When you or your partner are at home all the time, it simply never ends. The gift of a housekeeping service will lighten the load considerably, and is a great way to show your partner that you love and appreciate them.
- Clothes or lingerie
Valentine’s day is one day when buying clothes for your partner is encouraged. Celebrate your love by getting cute matching PJ’s, fun sox or your photo on a pair of underwear. Sexy lingerie is another option if that’s what you’re into. Put some thought into it, and have some fun.
- Romantic seduction scenario when least expected – staycation
Everyone enjoys being made to feel special, desired and celebrated. Valentine’s Day gifts are a great excuse to show your partner that they are all of that to you and more by setting up a seductive and romantic date night or weekend staycation. Instead of going out, bring everything to your place and go over the top romantic with the best food, wine, and a sexy time that you can surprise your partner with to show them how loved and desired they are. It might be a fun time for some consensual naughty play, or role play. Try out a few scenarios, you never know what you might love after trying something new.
- Dinner out at a favorite or untried restaurant
Choose a romantic table for two at your favorite restaurant, or get reservations at the exclusive bistro you’ve always wanted to try. Go all out with the chef’s tasting menu, the best wine, or champagne. Toast your love and take the time to taste the good life that you have together. It’s times like these that the best memories are made. Life is meant to be savored, so do it together and enjoy one another’s company. An unhurried meal shared with your love is a meaningful way to celebrate Valentine’s Day romance.
Whatever you decide to do for this Valentine’s Day holiday, do it with some flair, some romance, and let your partner know just how much they are loveand you appreciate all of the Valentines Day Gifts . Happy Valentine’s Day from The Couples Expert.
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